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Hi there,

Sehaj path is not about reading through Guru Granth Sahib, it is all about trying to understand the meaning, trying to understand what is written in Guru Granth sahib and relating it to your life. It will make more sense if we do Sehaj path from a Steek (Hard or soft copy of Guru Granth Sahib with meaning to words and lines). Find someone with whom you can discuss Gurbani. Read blogs, sites, discussion threads, articles, sikh history. Listen to katha. Never be afraid to put you thoughts in words while discussing Gurbani and be open minded. This will help you see your life from a different perspective. Gurbani will help you develop your internal being and will make you strong. And rest depends on your willingness and priorities.

Although your question is specific to marriage issues but to me it feels more like lack of empowerment. This is your life and if you want to make your own decisions you have to develop the courage to do so. Become independent and have the courage to carry your own burden. First and foremost rule, if you want the control of your life you have to take it not wait for that somebody will grant you the control.

Being a girl I also face societal issues and we all struggle to make a right decision. If our intentions are true , Waheguru is always there for us. however our prayers might not be answered in the way we want (And hardships do not mean that God is not helping us, they are way to discover better). And remember criticism follow us throughout our life no matter what we do. It is all up to us that what we want to take out from that criticism.

People will force you if you let them to. You will hear all kind of different advise and answers throughout your life and it is all up to you that what you want to do.

Hi there,

Gurbani helps with everything in life. As now you are doing Sehaj path is path, take full advantage of Gurbani. Please do not about reading just read through Guru Granth Sahib, it is all about trying Sahib. Try to understand the meaning, trying try to understand what is written in Guru Granth sahib and relating relate it to your life. It will make more sense if we do Sehaj path from a Steek (Hard or soft copy of Guru Granth Sahib with meaning to words and lines). Find someone with whom you can discuss Gurbani. Read blogs, sites, discussion threads, articles, sikh history. Listen to katha. Never be afraid to put you thoughts in words while discussing Gurbani and be open minded. This will help you see your life from a different perspective. Gurbani will help you develop your internal being and will make you strong. And rest depends on your willingness and priorities.

Although your question is specific to marriage issues but to me it feels more like lack of empowerment. This is your life and if you want to make your own decisions you have to develop the courage to do so. Become independent and have the courage to carry your own burden. First and foremost rule, if you want the control of your life you have to take it not wait for that somebody will grant you the control. It all depends on you that what you want in and from your life.

Being a girl I also face societal issues and we all struggle to make a right decision. If our intentions are true , Waheguru is always there for us. however our prayers might not be answered in the way we want (And hardships do not mean that God is not helping us, they are way to discover better). And remember criticism follow us throughout our life no matter what we do. It is all up to us that what we want to take out from that criticism.

People will force you influence you and your decisons if you let them to. You will hear all kind of different advise and answers throughout your life and it is all up to you that what you want to do.

Hi there,

Gurbani helps with everything in life. As now you are doing Sehaj path, take full advantage of Gurbani. Please do not just read through Guru Granth Sahib. Try to understand the meaning, try to understand what is written in Guru Granth sahib and relate it to your life. It will make more sense if we do Sehaj path from a Steek (Hard or soft copy of Guru Granth Sahib with meaning to words and lines). Find someone with whom you can discuss Gurbani. Read blogs, sites, discussion threads, articles, sikh history. Listen to katha. Never be afraid to put you thoughts in words while discussing Gurbani and be open minded. This will help you see your life from a different perspective. Gurbani will help you develop your internal being and will make you strong. And rest depends on your willingness and priorities.

Although your question is specific to marriage issues but to me it feels more like lack of empowerment. This is your life and if you want to make your own decisions you have to develop the courage to do so. Become independent and have the courage to carry your own burden. It all depends on you that what you want in and from your life.

Being a girl I also face societal issues and we all struggle to make a right decision. If our intentions are true , Waheguru is always there for us. however our prayers might not be answered in the way we want (And hardships do not mean that God is not helping us, they are way to discover better). And remember criticism follow us throughout our life no matter what we do. It is all up to us that what we want to take out from that criticism.

People will influence you and your decisons if you let them to. You will hear all kind of different advise and answers throughout your life and it is all up to you that what you want to do.

Hi there, waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Gurbani helps with everything in life. As now you are doing Sehaj path, take full advantage of Gurbani. Please do not just read through Guru Granth Sahib. Try to understand the meaning, try to understand what is written in Guru Granth sahib and relate it to your life. It will make more sense if we do Sehaj path from a Steek (Hard or soft copy of Guru Granth Sahib with meaning to words and lines). Find someone with whom you can discuss Gurbani. Read blogs, sites, discussion threads, articles, sikh history. Listen to katha. Never be afraid to put you thoughts in words while discussing Gurbani and be open minded. This will help you see your life from a different perspective. Gurbani will help you develop your internal being and will make you strong. And rest depends on your willingness and priorities.

Although your question is specific to marriage issues but to me it feels more like lack of empowerment. This is your life and if you want to make your own decisions you have to develop the courage to do so. Become independent and have the courage to carry your own burden. It all depends on you that what you want in and from your life.

Being a girl I also face societal issues and we all struggle to make a right decision. If our intentions are true , Waheguru is always there for us. however our prayers might not be answered in the way we want (And hardships do not mean that God is not helping us, they are way to discover better). And remember criticism follow us throughout our life no matter what we do. It is all up to us that what we want to take out from that criticism.

People will influence you and your decisons if you let them to. You will hear all kind of different advise and answers throughout your life and it is all up to you that what you want to do.

If any of my words appear inappropriate, I apologize for that. I am open to further discussion.