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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

This is one thing I dislike about Punjabi/Indian culture, if a sister or brother isn't ready to get married they should just back off for a bit, until You are ready. Your going to spend your life with him the rest of your life so why start off on a shaky foundation.

Your the daughter of Guru Gobind Singh Ji Mahraj. You don't need pandits guessing when you get married, its only going to happen when Waheguru Ji desires it to happen. So best thing to do is do Ardaas and take a Hukamnama for Guru Sahib Ji. Watch this video.

If You are ready to get married: - Sikhnet have a matrimonial service - Check this one out any questions about marriage you can ask them there as well as here.

Thats amazing you started a sehaj path. But your worried if it will help or not. You need to get rid of this doubt and of course it will help no one in this world is more powerful than our Gurus.

Take a Hukam from Guru Ji, if you need help with this the Sikh Rehat Mayrada says

For taking the command (Hukam), the hymn that is continuing on the top of the left page must be read from the beginning. If the hymn begins on the previous page, turn over the page and read the whole hymn from the beginning to the end. If the scriptural composition that is continuing on the top of the left hand page is a var (ode), then start from the first of the slokas preceding the pauri and read upto the end of the pauri. Conclude the reading at the end of the hymn with the line in which the name ‘Nanak’ occurs.

Also the Sikh Rehat Maryada says

When a girl becomes marriageable, physically, emotionally and by virtue of maturity of character, a suitable Sikh match should be found and she be married to him by Anand marriage rites.

Also check these out will help: - Sikh Rehat Maryada
- Basics of Sikhi video also do search YouTube for basics of sikhi and marriage.

Please watch the video will help its relevant to your problem

So after you take Hukam, whatever the decision do Ardaas and carry on with life.

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offensive. And if you have any further questions just reply back on here.

Also do check out the Rehat Maryada to see advice on doing Sehaj Path. Hope you remain in Chardi Kala and Guru Sahib destroys your problems.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

This is one thing I dislike about Punjabi/Indian culture, if a sister or brother isn't ready to get married they should just back off for a bit, until You are ready. Your going to spend your life with him the rest of your life so why start off on a shaky foundation.

Your the daughter of Guru Gobind Singh Ji Mahraj. You don't need pandits guessing when you get married, its only going to happen when Waheguru Ji desires it to happen. So best thing to do is do Ardaas and take a Hukamnama for Guru Sahib Ji. Watch this video.

If You are ready to get married: - Sikhnet have a matrimonial service service - Check this one out for any questions about marriage you can ask them there as well as here.

Thats amazing you started a sehaj path. But your worried if it will help or not. You need to get rid of this doubt and of course it will help no one in this world is more powerful than our Gurus.

Take a Hukam from Guru Ji, if you need help with this the Sikh Rehat Mayrada says

For taking the command (Hukam), the hymn that is continuing on the top of the left page must be read from the beginning. If the hymn begins on the previous page, turn over the page and read the whole hymn from the beginning to the end. If the scriptural composition that is continuing on the top of the left hand page is a var (ode), then start from the first of the slokas preceding the pauri and read upto the end of the pauri. Conclude the reading at the end of the hymn with the line in which the name ‘Nanak’ occurs.

Also the Sikh Rehat Maryada says

When a girl becomes marriageable, physically, emotionally and by virtue of maturity of character, a suitable Sikh match should be found and she be married to him by Anand marriage rites.

Also check these out will help: - Sikh Rehat Maryada
- Basics of Sikhi video also do search YouTube for basics of sikhi and marriage.

Please watch the video will help its relevant to your problem

So after you take Hukam, whatever the decision do Ardaas and carry on with life.

Please forgive me if i said anything wrong or offensive. And if you have any further questions just reply back on here.

Also do check out the Rehat Maryada to see advice on doing Sehaj Path. Hope you remain in Chardi Kala and Guru Sahib destroys your problems.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh