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Varinder Kaur Ji -

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

Care not for what people think of you. People will think all sorts of things. You cannot dress to please others. You must be you. Look into your own doubts and fears and be honest with yourself. When you be you - fearlessly and securely, then those who can see will see and those who cannot will not. Your job is to become secure in your own identity. That chunni is there to protect you. It is the same with dastar. It protects you by changing your projection from a weak, vulnerable woman to a daughter of the Guru - a royal princess. It is your strength, nobility and grace that must be your projection as a daughter of the Guru.