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You say "I have never been able to make great friends I can't talk to girls I think they will mock me regarding my hair " This is not about your hairs. This is about your self-esteem. The first relationship you must establish is your relationship with yourself. You won't have true friends (sadhsangat) and you won't have worthwhile relationships with girls until you establish a deeper relationship with yourself. You will not find out who you are from other people. You cannot please other people. You can, however, explore your own identity and your inner relationship with that. Go for these answers: Who am I? What are my core values? Do I love myself, and if not, why not?

Then the rest will unfold for you naturally. First things first. It's not about your hair.