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Having an Khande di Pahul is a personal decision but in marriage it's one soul in two bodies. The better half thing. So your future depends on your spouse's actions too. It has been advised that both partners should be ready. And sometimes the Panj Pyare impose it. Amritdhari jiwan is our keerat. If we go and have meet Waheguru, have Darshan, it is His Will and can come independent of whether you have had Amrit or not.