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I'd like to add a thought about premarital sex, feel free to respond...
Premarital and extramarital sex is a supposed nono in our community. My personal belief on this issue is that when this idea was proposed people were being married at extremely young ages (as pubescent teens or even younger). It logically makes sense. In the US, it is a growing trend that most don't marry until mid to late 20's or even beyond. Our bodies have natural sexual needs that are biologically intrinsic. I think refusing sex before marriage is then dumb. I agree to gurumustuk's point that you should use sexual relations as a manifestion of your connection with a person as it is much more meaningful... but to overarchingly say premarital sex is not allowed is plain dumb in my opinion