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Dear Bhenji,

Please just focus on the relationship between you and your husband. You will never be able to make everyone happy and not everyone will like you and that's OK. In this life, you and your husband were brought together to work off karma and to move closer to God. Use your grace and love as a woman to build a happy marriage and avoid the negativity. I know you can't get away from family--key is to be diplomatic and avoid gossip and avoid taking sides. Hope that helps.