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I can understand what you are saying. I would say that a Gursikh looks at live in a very different way. The way of Gursikhi is - to look at pain and pleasure as one. It is hard but Gursikhs strive for it with Naam and Baani which makes this happen. Worldly sukh/dukh do not matter to Gursikh as much as the love of Guru Sahib. I am sure this person's parents do not go crazy crying over it.

If you ask why this happens... It is all about Karam. Whatever happens to us is because of our previous karams. But when we take Amrit, Guru ji destroys all our karam. And sometimes, Guru ji reduces karams of Gursikh too. Like if a person was suppose to get cancer, he would just get a flue or something.

It is all Guru's Will.