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What a shame...Remember: 'All of humanity is One'.
You need to be honest with your family. If there is still love between you and your girlfriend, get married and bring up your child to respect both cultures and traditions. If marriage is unlikely, still be a 'supportive ex' - that way you will not need to lose your child.

The main reason why parents/ extended family discourage marrying outside caste/ religion etc, is their fear that their child will move away from or reject all Sikh values. Once they are reassured that this will not be the case, they should come round..