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Welcome to the SikhNet Youth Q&A. This is a breakdown in communications. Please find a quiet spot where you will be undisturbed and sit down with your wife in a neutral, loving, open way. Give each other your undivided attention. Really listen to each other. As you listen, keep your heart open and do not react. There is no blame here, merely seeking to understand each others needs. If you feel anger during the discussion, understand that it is your anger and keep quiet and deal with it internally until you can again be calm and clear. The key to peace in your household is deeply listening to each other.