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Hello gurderp08, Waheguru Ji. Thanks for being so clear and direct in your question. The reality is that you are as God made you. "Society and all" be damned. For too long, people have lived in fear of "But what will people say?" Now is the time to be free from all other's opinions. The man who is to be your partner on your life journey will come to you when you work on yourself to become, calm, excellent, clear and compassionate.

There is no problem at all except in your own mind. Let it go.