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Dear Preet Ji - Waheguru Ji. This is simply a karmic interlock between you and her. You can break this interlock. The way to break it is to not only patience, but simply love. First you have to hear and feel her words and remain silent as you examine your own physical and emotional reaction to them. Feel it in your body and mind. Then start to defuse the reaction within you. Breathe deeply. Inhale deeply and say "Wahe" silently to yourself. Exhale and silently say "Guru" as you open your heart and send out loving energy from your heart. Consciously let go of your reactive energy. Don't say anything. Let yourself relax into the moment and relate to her soul. Let your soul connect to her soul beyond any words she is saying. Silently send her love and forgiveness. Don't speak until you feel deeply calm and centered in your heart. Words spoken from the mind fly by. Words spoken from the heart penetrate the awareness of the other person. Therein lies true communication and the end of this karmic interlock. You are the only one who can break it.
Never be afraid of Waheguru. Waheguru already knows everything and He is the most loving, forgiving and understanding of all.
ਸਲੋਕ ਮਃ 4 ॥ ਜਿਸੁ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਤਾਤਿ ਪਰਾਈ ਹੋਵੈ ਤਿਸ ਕਾ ਕਦੇ ਨ ਹੋਵੀ ਭਲਾ ॥ ਓਸ ਦੈ ਆਖਿਐ ਕੋਈ ਨ ਲਗੈ ਨਿਤ ਓਜਾੜੀ ਪੂਕਾਰੇ ਖਲਾ ॥ (ANG 308)
SLOK, FOURTH HOUSE: One whose heart is filled with jealousy of others, never comes to any good. No one pays any attention to what she says; she is just a fool, crying out endlessly in the wilderness.
ਗਉੜੀ ਮਹਲਾ 5 ॥ ਏਕਸੁ ਸਿਉ ਜਾ ਕਾ ਮਨੁ ਰਾਤਾ ॥ ਵਿਸਰੀ ਤਿਸੈ ਪਰਾਈ ਤਾਤਾ ॥1॥ ਬਿਨੁ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਨ ਦੀਸੈ ਕੋਈ ॥ ਕਰਨ ਕਰਾਵਨ ਕਰਤਾ ਸੋਈ ॥1॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
Gauree, Fifth Mehl: Those whose minds are imbued with the One Lord, forget to feel jealous of others. ||1|| They see none other than the Lord of the Universe. The Creator is the Doer of everything, the Cause of causes. ||1||Pause||
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Dear Preet Ji - Waheguru Ji. This is simply a karmic interlock between you and her. You can break this interlock. The way to break it is to not only patience, but simply love. First you have to hear and feel her words and remain silent as you examine your own physical and emotional reaction to them. Feel it in your body and mind. Then start to defuse the reaction within you. Breathe deeply. Inhale deeply and say "Wahe" silently to yourself. Exhale and silently say "Guru" as you open your heart and send out loving energy from your heart. Consciously let go of your reactive energy. Don't say anything. Let yourself relax into the moment and relate to her soul. Let your soul connect to her soul beyond any words she is saying. Silently send her love and forgiveness. Don't speak until you feel deeply calm and centered in your heart. Words spoken from the mind fly by. Words spoken from the heart penetrate the awareness of the other person. Therein lies true communication and the end of this karmic interlock. You are the only one who can break it.
Never be afraid of Waheguru. Waheguru already knows everything and He is the most loving, forgiving and understanding of all.
ਸਲੋਕ ਮਃ 4 ॥ ਜਿਸੁ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਤਾਤਿ ਪਰਾਈ ਹੋਵੈ ਤਿਸ ਕਾ ਕਦੇ ਨ ਹੋਵੀ ਭਲਾ ॥ ਓਸ ਦੈ ਆਖਿਐ ਕੋਈ ਨ ਲਗੈ ਨਿਤ ਓਜਾੜੀ ਪੂਕਾਰੇ ਖਲਾ ॥ (ANG 308)
SLOK, FOURTH HOUSE: One whose heart is filled with jealousy of others, never comes to any good. No one pays any attention to what she says; she is just a fool, crying out endlessly in the wilderness.
ਗਉੜੀ ਮਹਲਾ 5 ॥ ਏਕਸੁ ਸਿਉ ਜਾ ਕਾ ਮਨੁ ਰਾਤਾ ॥ ਵਿਸਰੀ ਤਿਸੈ ਪਰਾਈ ਤਾਤਾ ॥1॥ ਬਿਨੁ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਨ ਦੀਸੈ ਕੋਈ ॥ ਕਰਨ ਕਰਾਵਨ ਕਰਤਾ ਸੋਈ ॥1॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
Gauree, Fifth Mehl: Those whose minds are imbued with the One Lord, forget to feel jealous of others. ||1|| They see none other than the Lord of the Universe. The Creator is the Doer of everything, the Cause of all causes. ||1||Pause||