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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh veer ji,

By reciting gurbani, one finds the pathway, but mere recitation, your relationship will not be saved. Saying Waheguru once and understanding the meaning will automatically enlighten you. I feel like you need to tell your girlfriend, if shes a "sikh" or believes in any religion that you follow guru granth sahib ji and that tells us that god abides in everyone. "sab gobind hai, sab gobind hai, gobind bin nahi koyi". So, you need to see god in her and trust her, whilst also making it obvious. Remember, you should date to then get married as you need to become "ek jot". Just take it easy and have a good face to face talk with her. Let me know if you need to clarify anything or just want to lighten your heart and have a talk :) bhul chuk muaf karni Waheguru ji.

Here's a link to one of the shabad about following guru ji's teaching: https://www.sikhitothemax.org/shabad?id=1026&q=gkml&type=1&source=G&highlight=12950