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WJKK WJKF Bhenji, I’m not amritdhari so what I can say is limited. I think you should stay solid on your commitment to keep your kes natural. At the same time, there may be more done on the hormonal side by seeing your doctor. For example certain oral contraceptives and even other medications are designed to balance the testosterone so eventually the old hair grows out and the new hair will not be as thick/should be not as prominent. You shouldn't feel forced to do anything you don't want to do and you should stay strong in what your path is. There are in fact a lot of women who struggle with this issue so you aren't alone in it. I don't know what to say about your relationship. I just really don't like it when men are so preoccupied with looks and not the fact that you are the mother of his child and committed to your path to God and relationship to Guru Ji. Relationships should be so much deeper than appearance…You don’t have to tolerate this behavior and rudeness, just be strong within yourself, do what you feel is right within your heart and follow Guru Ji’s path. Don’t get caught up in what anyone else thinks, or your appearance. You are so much more than your temporary body on this earth so focus on that spiritual connection which will give you the strength to move forward and love yourself as you are.