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I am a 36 year old female. I was talking to a guy from the states and we were going to get married once we had met and my parents were happy that he had true intentions towards me. Unfortunately my uncle has been finding things out about him as he lives in he same state so now he has told my parents that he's no good. This is through idol gossip. The reason he has found this out is due to his ex who has been spreading lies. Also I feel as though I can't marry, choose where to live or do as I please. My family including siblings black mail me and control my life even though I am 36 years old. My parents can't keep me in the UK if I want to live elsewhere. Also they abuse me mentally, emotionally and verbally. I was hoping to get married and be happy but it looks like they will control every aspect of my life and I am sick of it. They have told me if I go with this man they will disown me as their daughter. My own mother said I should have been killed at birth.