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Absolutely as these two guys have said. StrongKaur gave most good answer, and Babaji also great as well. Safety first and calling the police and protection services.

We will all do Ardas and benti as well that you can be safe and that Guru Ji can protect you from future situations and help healing to take place. Let us stay in the safety of Maharaj and Sangat.

Love and support for you at this time.

Oh that is a really good question, and we need an amritdhari woman to come and answer! I think it would be okay to just keep in on you in your pocket or something? It has a benefit to being inside the hair, like you see men do it, but let us see if an amrithdhari woman can answer this. Bless you :)

It doesn't feel like you insulted them at all, because you were doing what is best for your own well being. So it is important to strike a balance between what is best for you and what you want to do for others. I am sure you know what will be best judgment. Lots of love to you Auntie.

I guess it will be your choice to keep trying with your husband or to move on. Whatever you think is appropriate. Equally, it is better for us to try and not be upset about past things, so we can be happy on this day.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,

So is the first problem is you are struggling with money, because you gave up your job when you became pregnant, and your parents-in-law are not helping you financially? If this is the case, then I understand your trouble because it does not seem easy to nuture an unborn child and have a job. If you are at your mum's house at the moment, does that mean you are okay and she is looking after you for food etc?

For solutions, if you put on a tape of Akhand paath in your house all day long (from Youtube) that is a very good way to start listening to Gurbani. Then you can get blessings from Maharaj and hopefully your situation will improve. You don't even have to listen, just play it in the house somewhere.

I am sorry to hear that you lost your daughter, if this is accurate to what you have said? It is not so good that on such a day your mum-in-law is saying bad things about your family. I wish you well that you can that this situation may improve for you and the nasty words may heal away and you can move on with your life.

Situation does not look so great, regarding you moving away from your husband and losing your things and staying with your mum. But it does not seem like you did much wrong, except 'one moment of anger' as you said. These things happen and we all make mistakes. So it is good to move on and be positive with your own life. There are still happy things for you to look forward to, like your new coming child that you are pregnant with.

If you can stay calm and kindly ask Guru Ji to arrange your affairs, then hopefully things can improve and the family relations can get healed. Guru Maharaj can work any miracle and can solve any trouble. Maybe this would mean mending things with your husband and getting things sorted so can be financially secure and not getting into arguments with your in-laws. If anything was missed my apologies, and anything questions are fine to be asked. Take care and good wishes for your family.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

Well you can take my word for it, or you can meditate and find out for yourself. Hopefully you may see the reality that everything is God actually, not just a guy in the sky. You and I are part of God and we live in God, so everything around you is God. Well take care :)

Yeah I thought it would be I guess, lol. But answer never changes! :) take Hukamnama from Guru and you'll see absolutely, answer is always the same.

So if you are concerned and you don't whats wrong, then meditating on the Cosmos can help you. Chanting waheguru, breathing, listening to kirtan. Going inside, all answers can be found.

I once heard Yogi Ji describe something similar to you, about 'Space fever', where you struggle to relate to your surroundings, and you described trying to 'get out of the universe'. Yoga and meditation will help you, and service to others will stimulate the circle of flow so you receive answers and blessings.

Is there anything in your life that makes you feel happy? Friends and family, even pets you may love a lot? Sports you play, yummy foods or books, TV shows etc...? Remember those things that bring you joy, and you can feel the gratitude of having them in your life. And when you are in a state of gratitude to the Universe, a lot of blessings can come your way. This is especially true when you are in a depressed or tough time - recognizing gratitude and thanks for things which you do have can turn things around for you.

If you just play sehaj paath in your room from Youtube whilst you sleep (even whilst you are at school and not there), I think your depression would vanish pretty fast. Because the quality of the air will change and uplift you, that's how we make the water into Amrit (with bani). So no harm trying.

Well let us not be playful between life and death because it does take 8 million or so lifetimes to become a human. If there is a lot of depression, there is also a lot of opportunity for strength (there is ALWAYS a balance between positive and negative).

From a Globalist perspective, the marriage is just your commitment. But if you are asking a karmic question, then marriage isn't affecting the karma. A single person may only have sex with one person in their life, but they might not be married. A married person may be having affairs all day long, but they are married. So its not whether you are married, its whether or not you are sleeping around.The single person is doing things in a way most would think is fine, and the married guy will probably end up in trouble. So the key is having just one partner, that person you are merging souls with. Equally, the question then comes, why the 2 single people wouldn't get married, but it's a question of commitment. It's not really anyone else's business whether or not two people who want to be together their whole lives are married or not. That's their personal commitment and choice.

From the Sikhi perspective, we have those marital ceremonies to ensure that commitment and create the binding of the souls to Guru Maharaj. That's a really beautiful thing remember, why to miss out on that? :)

From a Khalsa perspective, there is a rehit and part of that is waiting untill marriage.

About the class, I feel like you should do what you think is best to keep you happy and healthy (in mind and body).

So you prefer not be in the class because of this guy, that seems fair. On the other hand, it sounded like if you aren't in the class it affects your grades, and you need reasonable grades to keep peace with your parents? So you have options that you can choose, but it seems like either way can work for you. It will be kind of difficult for someone else to tell you what choice will make you happy, because what one person finds happy another finds sad. So that's why the recommendation was for you to choose. Equally, not many like to deal with angry parents, so if you can find a way to keep your grades high that might help you.

About paath and bad thoughts, what even is a bad thought? Murder, or letting down your parents, or rebelling against society? How bad can the thoughts get?.... A good guy's worst thought may be robbery, but a Robber's worst thought is probably getting caught by the cops! lol...

The thing you want to think about the least is the thing you will think about. (example: do not think about a monkey with a banana --- now you will find it hard not to think about this). HOWEVER, bani always works because it has a neutral meditative quality, so even having it on in your room casually will always make an impact.

I hope this helps and you are feeling better, you said you think God has turned his back on you, but you are still a beautiful flower in his creation because all the flowers have their own unique beauty.

Take care :)

Turning off the radio can definitely be good sometimes Babaji. You are quite right there. Let us hope bhai ji can get the strength from Maharaj to get back his Sikhi Spirit. He could use your honourable example to quickly re-assume his spirit, if he feels he has lost it. Bless you ji.

Yeah seva like household seva :) That stuff isn't gonna get old, there will always be taalis (plates) at the Gurudwara that need cleaning... lol. Bless you ji

Well its okay to be sad sometimes too, thats a human thing. You know one person will see something as bad, and another person might see the same thing as good? One person may have no friends, and be happy because they prefer their own company. Another may be alone and be very sad, because they want to have lots of friends. So sometimes it is just how you deal with the situation, and not the situation itself. Why not look at the positive in everything? That way you will be happy no matter what comes your way. Bless you ji.

Well, I'm not sure what your question is, but I wouldn't worry about what other people think. If you enjoy reading Gurbani than why don't you do it? You will get blessings of Guru Ji :)

No you cannot

No you cannot. :)

Shanti Kaur does a story on this on Sikhnet Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhiGo.... She recalls how Guru Gobind Singh said the time and date of death is prewritten. This meant that when his soldiers went into battle, there was no reason for them to be afraid. Either that day was their day to die, or it wasn't. If they were supposed to die, it meant even if they ran from the battlefield, they would die perhaps in another situation. If it wasn't their day to die, there was no army that could stop them, even if they were 1 against 125 thousand. Blessings ji. :)

I totally agreed with Guruka babaji, and his supportive comments. If you are struggling to get up for sadhana, maybe you can go to the Gurudwara that you mentioned to do nitnem there, if they offer, or help with morning sukhasan seva etc... Sangat can always be really helpful to support your Amrit Vela practice. Also doing seva for Maharaj may be helpful in getting up, as Guru showers blessings on those that serve him. Best wishess bhenji

Yes, if you do not have sex then you won't get pregnant. And yes, God will always take care of you, no matter what, if you are kindly asking for his help. That is good that you mentioned you pray, so if you are feeling worried then it makes sense to continue to ask God to help you, as you say you are doing, and you will surely be taken care of. Bless you bhenji :)

I personally had the exact same situation when I was doing A-levels - I would be trying to work on mediating and nitnem in the mornings before school, and my parents were very much alienated by that. What worked for me was to trust Guru Maharaj and kindly ask for his support, and trust in the power of the meditative practice. The meditation is clearing your mind, especially with other practices like Yoga and doing your nitnem. Thus I ended up doing much better in my exams because I was much clearer. If you want to do better in your studies, so as to keep your parents happy, these practices will support you, as will healthy lifestyle, exercise etc... Serving people, say at the Gurudwara will also do you a help - remember that God helps those that help others.

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Satnam Ji, Firstly, I'd like to give big thank you, and smile and hugs to the Sikhnet Team for your great seva and opening this platform and your other platforms, so we, the Sangat, can get answers to our spiritual questions. My question is about Seva as a Sadhana and how this works. From my understanding, Sri Singh Sahib Ji gave the Aquarian Sadhana for his students to do for the foreseeable future. On the other hand, Yogi Ji notes that he spent 4 1/2 years doing his Sadhana at Darbar Sahib doing Ishnaan Seva. My question is, do Aquarian Sadhana and 'Ishnaan Seva Sadhana' represent 2 different types of Sadhana, is there a different effect to doing one or the other? Also, could one recreate the 'spirit' of Ishnaan Seva in their home, say by doing tidying at cleaning at Amrit Vela time? What are your thoughts on this topic. Best Wishes and Blessings, Tarran Singh