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I have forgiven even very hurtful things from people i love because i have compassion and understanding and know them well enough to put myself in their shoes and understand they didn't mean harm. But i have trouble letting go of little things that other people have done or said in the past. They aren't even as important in the scheme of life but i can't seem to let them go and i think its just dead weight i am carrying. Those relationships were not the close, deep ones so i often wasn't able to understand why someone would do such a thing or use such hurtful words, etc. I think that ultimately this comes from not seeing that we should love all equally, but i'm really not there yet. So, how do i move on from all of those little things which are holding me back?