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Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh...i am married since last one year ...we enquired about the family...the response was good...their behaviour towards me is gud except for some issues.....but the problem is that they do not stick to their words....now the issue since the beginning was that ...they do not give me the pocket money (as i was newly married and after 3 months i became pregnant i cud not do the job)....we tried to resolve this matter so many times and they agreed but later again they changed their words..they say that servants take the pocket money not daughters in law ..i have a narrow thinking ....after marriage also when i came to my maternal home for the first time ..they gave nothing in my hand and sent me empty handed and when i objected they started having issues like pekke kon lai ke janda h assi lokka ne hun shuru kitta h es age vich ....

and the other issue is that my sis in law always speaks ill words for me whenever i ask for anything to my husband regarding my interests which involves money they ask me to take it from my mom in law... ...she says mummy(pekke) ne paise diye hain wo ni use karti humse mangti rehti hai...apne shauk khud poore karo ...yaha se paisa le ke jayegi mayke degi...FD mein humara naam nahi hai ....maa pyo aaye c minnata karan ki saddi kudi naal vyah kar lo (however THEY raised the issue during roka ki roka vadiya karo maan sammaan hona chaida THEY called for the meeting) Mere relatives jo v de ke jaande ne my mom in law keeps it saying that ohna nu agge vartana hunda hai... is it right ? I agree that they do for me ...but i had these issues which i have mentioned above..they said that hamesha complaints karti rehti h...

And each time when me and my hubby have an arguement in the room (like if i ask him for gifts or we never went for outing alone ...or if i have any. issue about his family) My husband always says i cant live with u i will leave you and immediately goes to his mom due to which we face more problems as the whole family interferes in our matter.....hubby says tu mannu meri family de against bhardi hain...

And now the main issue that led to dispute is that the day i lost my daughter i heard my mom in law speaking against my family....i was hurt badly and the same day i told all this to my husband in the room ...he got angry that sharam nahi andi dehari kudi di death( just after 15 days of when she was born ) hoi te raati tu mannu ehh sabb bol rahi h...kudi da gam nahi h tennu...but i cud nt hear his mom's word and was badly hurt....so he immediately went to his mom and they called his mama and mamiji ...and they all came to my room and snatched my phone and my hubby pulled my hand ( i had a cesarian) and my mom in law and sis in law again started comenting that brand dekh k shadi ki h...paise le ke jayegi blah blah....and when i called my mom on her cell phone...they again said ki koi nahi ayega inke ghar se..kisi ko ladki ki chinta nahi h....ladki roye ya na roye.... (i had few fights with my sis in law earlier also ) The next day my mom came and as the matter got so intensed last night....she could not tolerate and took me back to my home town..they all stopped me a lot...but i was so badly hurt that i cud not forget their words about me and my family...i came along with my mom...but later after a week they conveyed that ask her(me) to take her luggage we will not keep relations with them ... But i dnt want to break our marriage ..i am attached to my husband ...i just took a wrong step in anger .....it all just happened in anger ..and after coming back to my hometown...i called them myself that please dnt be worried i will be back...i was just tensed so much that i left that home in anger ...but now they are not ready to pick my call even .....(no member in the family)...my husband is not ready to listen to me at any cost ....i didn't have any communication with them since last 2 months ..... I love my husband a lot..but since last 2.5 months he has not even called me neither is he receiving my call......they all want us bow downn in front of them ...i even said sorry to them so many times...but nobody is ready to forgive...i have all my luggage and valuables at my in laws place...they want me to take it back as they will not keep relations with us .

Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh...i am married since last one year ...we enquired about the family...the response was good...their behaviour towards me is gud except for some issues.....but the problem is that they do not stick to their words....now the issue since the beginning was that ...they do not give me the pocket money (as i was newly married and after 3 months i became pregnant i cud not do the job)....we tried to resolve this matter so many times and they agreed but later again they changed their words..they say that servants take the pocket money not daughters in law ..i have a narrow thinking ....after marriage also when i came to my maternal home for the first time ..they gave nothing in my hand and sent me empty handed and when i objected they started having issues like pekke kon lai ke janda h assi lokka ne hun shuru kitta h es age vich ....

and the other issue is that my sis in law always speaks ill words for me whenever i ask for anything to my husband regarding my interests which involves money they ask me to take it from my mom in law... ...she says mummy(pekke) ne paise diye hain wo ni use karti humse mangti rehti hai...apne shauk khud poore karo ...yaha se paisa le ke jayegi mayke degi...FD mein humara naam nahi hai ....maa pyo aaye c minnata karan ki saddi kudi naal vyah kar lo (however THEY raised the issue during roka ki roka vadiya karo maan sammaan hona chaida THEY called for the meeting) Mere relatives jo v de ke jaande ne my mom in law keeps it saying that ohna nu agge vartana hunda hai... is it right ? I agree that they do for me ...but i had these issues which i have mentioned above..they said that hamesha complaints karti rehti h...

And each time when me and my hubby have an arguement in the room (like if i ask him for gifts or we never went for outing alone ...or if i have any. issue about his family) My husband always says i cant live with u i will leave you and immediately goes to his mom due to which we face more problems as the whole family interferes in our matter.....hubby says tu mannu meri family de against bhardi hain...

And now the main issue that led to dispute is that the day i lost my daughter i heard my mom in law speaking against my family....i was hurt badly and the same day i told all this to my husband in the room ...he got angry that sharam nahi andi dehari kudi di death( just after 15 days of when she was born ) hoi te raati tu mannu ehh sabb bol rahi h...kudi da gam nahi h tennu...but i cud nt hear his mom's word and was badly hurt....so he immediately went to his mom and they called his mama and mamiji ...and they all came to my room and snatched my phone and my hubby pulled my hand ( i had a cesarian) and my mom in law and sis in law again started comenting that brand dekh k shadi ki h...paise le ke jayegi blah blah....and when i called my mom on her cell phone...they again said ki koi nahi ayega inke ghar se..kisi ko ladki ki chinta nahi h....ladki roye ya na roye.... (i had few fights with my sis in law earlier also ) The next day my mom came and as the matter got so intensed last night....she could not tolerate and took me back to my home town..they all stopped me a lot...but i was so badly hurt that i cud not forget their words about me and my family...i came along with my mom...but later after a week they conveyed that ask her(me) to take her luggage we will not keep relations with them ... But i dnt want to break our marriage ..i am attached to my husband ...i just took a wrong step in anger .....it all just happened in anger ..and after coming back to my hometown...i called them myself that please dnt be worried i will be back...i was just tensed so much that i left that home in anger ...but now they are not ready to pick my call even .....(no member in the family)...my husband is not ready to listen to me at any cost ....i didn't have any communication with them since last 2 months ..... I love my husband a lot..but since last 2.5 months he has not even called me neither is he receiving my call......they all want us bow downn in front of them ...i even said sorry to them so many times...but nobody is ready to forgive...i have all my luggage and valuables at my in laws place...they want me to take it back as they will not keep relations with us .

Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh...i am married since last one year ...we enquired about the family...the response was good...their behaviour towards me is gud except for some issues.....but the problem is that they do not stick to their words....now the issue since the beginning was that ...they do not give me the pocket money (as i was newly married and after 3 months i became pregnant i cud not do the job)....we tried to resolve this matter so many times and they agreed but later again they changed their words..they say that servants take the pocket money not daughters in law ..i have a narrow thinking ....after marriage also when i came to my maternal home for the first time ..they gave nothing in my hand and sent me empty handed and when i objected they started having issues like pekke kon lai ke janda h assi lokka ne hun shuru kitta h es age vich ....

and the other issue is that my sis in law always speaks ill words for me whenever i ask for anything to my husband regarding my interests which involves money they ask me to take it from my mom in law... ...she says mummy(pekke) ne paise diye hain wo ni use karti humse mangti rehti hai...apne shauk khud poore karo ...yaha se paisa le ke jayegi mayke degi...FD mein humara naam nahi hai ....maa pyo aaye c minnata karan ki saddi kudi naal vyah kar lo (however THEY raised the issue during roka ki roka vadiya karo maan sammaan hona chaida THEY called for the meeting) Mere relatives jo v de ke jaande ne my mom in law keeps it saying that ohna nu agge vartana hunda hai... is it right ? I agree that they do for me ...but i had these issues which i have mentioned above..they said that hamesha complaints karti rehti h...

And each time when me and my hubby have an arguement in the room (like if i ask him for gifts or we never went for outing alone ...or if i have any. issue about his family) My husband always says i cant live with u i will leave you and immediately goes to his mom due to which we face more problems as the whole family interferes in our matter.....hubby says tu mannu meri family de against bhardi hain...

And now the main issue that led to dispute is that the day i lost my daughter i heard my mom in law speaking against my family....i was hurt badly and the same day i told all this to my husband in the room ...he got angry that sharam nahi andi dehari kudi di death( just after 15 days of when she was born ) hoi te raati tu mannu ehh sabb bol rahi h...kudi da gam nahi h tennu...but i cud nt hear his mom's word and was badly hurt....so he immediately went to his mom and they called his mama and mamiji ...and they all came to my room and snatched my phone and my hubby pulled my hand ( i had a cesarian) and my mom in law and sis in law again started comenting that brand dekh k shadi ki h...paise le ke jayegi blah blah....and when i called my mom on her cell phone...they again said ki koi nahi ayega inke ghar se..kisi ko ladki ki chinta nahi h....ladki roye ya na roye.... (i had few fights with my sis in law earlier also ) The next day my mom came and as the matter got so intensed last night....she could not tolerate and took me back to my home town..they all stopped me a lot...but i was so badly hurt that i cud not forget their words about me and my family...i came along with my mom...but later after a week they conveyed that ask her(me) to take her luggage we will not keep relations with them ... But i dnt want to break our marriage ..i am attached to my husband ...i just took a wrong step in anger .....it all just happened in anger ..and after coming back to my hometown...i called them myself that please dnt be worried i will be back...i was just tensed so much that i left that home in anger ...but now they are not ready to pick my call even .....(no member in the family)...my husband is not ready to listen to me at any cost ....i didn't have any communication with them since last 2 months ..... I love my husband a lot..but since last 2.5 months he has not even called me neither is he receiving my call......they all want us bow downn in front of them ...i even said sorry to them so many times...but nobody is ready to forgive...i have all my luggage and valuables at my in laws place...they want me to take it back as they will not keep relations with us .