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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji

My sister is an Amritdhari. I have seen her many times sharing her plate with her friends which are non-amritdharis. Due to this habit, I avoid eating her jhoota. Even not only her's I have seen many other Amritdharis as well who don't mind eating jhoota of non amritdharis. This made me doubt everyone and now I don't prefer sharing my plate with them. My sister says that I overthink on this matter and that I have a suspicious attitude. She says refusing to eat with non amritdharis would hurt their sentiments and it will make them feel inferior. But then, why do the panj pyaras guides towards eating with only the amritdharis and not the rest? Please tell me where I am going wrong and what should be done?

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji

My sister is an Amritdhari. I have seen her many times sharing her plate with her friends which are non-amritdharis. Due to this habit, I avoid eating her jhoota. Even not only her's I have seen many other Amritdharis as well who don't mind eating jhoota of non amritdharis. This made me doubt everyone and now I don't prefer sharing my plate with them. My sister says that I overthink on this matter and that I have a suspicious attitude. She says refusing to eat with non amritdharis would hurt their sentiments and it will make them feel inferior. But then, why do the panj pyaras guides towards eating with only the amritdharis and not the rest? Please tell me where I am going wrong and what should be done?

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji