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Still in love with amritdhari ex

I am a sixteen year old Sikh (not amritdhari) and fell in love with a twenty year old guy who happened to be amritdhari. We indulged in sexual activities, thinking we were going to marry each other. A month ago he had broke up with me, and told me he was going to wait till I am 18 till we date. A few days after the break up, he went to a camp and developed strong feelings for another girl. I tore my hear in half. He finally got the guts to ask her out after talking to her nonstop for a bit more than a month, and now they have been dating for a little more than a week. This tears my heart out everytime. I really love this guy. I know I might seem young, but I'm very mature. This guy seemed to be extremely knowlegdable about SIkhi. like VERY!! And is looked highly in the Seattle community for that and his efforts towards charity. I still really miss him. He means the wolrd to me. I know its wrong to look at someones elses man. But its relaly hard to move on that fast. They say that if you do ardas with 100% faith in GUruji, it comes true. I want to marry this man...We dated for almost 11 months. Engluged in sexual pleasures, which makes me very nervous to be with someone else other than him because of it, and he was my best friend. We shared every insecurity with each other. It hurts seeing him move on in just a couple days...I really love him. Will Waheguru answer my ardas?

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Still in love with amritdhari ex

I am a sixteen year old Sikh (not amritdhari) and fell in love with a twenty year old guy who happened to be amritdhari. We indulged in sexual activities, thinking we were going to marry each other. A month ago he had broke up with me, and told me he was going to wait till I am 18 till we date. A few days after the break up, he went to a camp and developed strong feelings for another girl. I tore my hear in half. He finally got the guts to ask her out after talking to her nonstop for a bit more than a month, and now they have been dating for a little more than a week. This tears my heart out everytime. I really love this guy. I know I might seem young, but I'm very mature. This guy seemed to be extremely knowlegdable about SIkhi. like VERY!! And is looked highly in the Seattle community for that and his efforts towards charity. I still really miss him. He means the wolrd to me. I know its wrong to look at someones elses man. But its relaly hard to move on that fast. They say that if you do ardas with 100% faith in GUruji, it comes true. I want to marry this man...We dated for almost 11 months. Engluged in sexual pleasures, which makes me very nervous to be with someone else other than him because of it, and he was my best friend. We shared every insecurity with each other. It hurts seeing him move on in just a couple days...I really love him. Will Waheguru answer my ardas?