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Why are Sikhs so curious about sex?

asked 2012-12-01 18:34:47 -0500

pawan gravatar image

I've noticed that a lot of questions posted on this Q&A page deal with sex. Why do Sikhs have so many questions regarding this issue? Can't we just be open about it with our own parents? I mean it's their responsibility to explain this stuff to us, no matter how awkward it may get. Anybody agree with me? If you disagree, please explain why.

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answered 2012-12-01 22:31:58 -0500

kanwaljit.singh gravatar image

Frankly the whole world is curious about sex. Here is an open forum for QnA and people ask their doubts. As far as parents are concerned, it is always a sticky area whether you are in a Sikh family or not (and Punjabi Sikhs are kind of on the conservative side). So it is sad that in the end we believe what the internet or TV tells us.

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Thanks for the input. I totally agree.

pawan gravatar imagepawan ( 2012-12-01 23:32:02 -0500 )edit

Yeah I know its sad really...

Kaurageouswarrior1699 gravatar imageKaurageouswarrior1699 ( 2012-12-02 00:15:52 -0500 )edit
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answered 2012-12-03 17:28:12 -0500

Sardar Sukhmeet Singh gravatar image

The whole world is curious about sex, especially if you are around my age, which is also the age that many people start having this relation of love towards the other sex, and also respects them much more, if you were to ask a little child who doesn't know how he was born, a young male, a non-sikh recommended, but any faith is fine, ask this kid what a girl is like, mostly it will be negative, because I am a Sikh, I have felt that no one should ever be discriminated against like ever, now ask a teenager male, he will almost always say a different answer, but non-sikh is who you should ask

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answered 2012-12-03 17:51:27 -0500

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updated 2012-12-03 17:52:56 -0500

Although it is true people become curious about sex once they go thru puberty. I might have to disagree with Sardar Sukhmeet Singh to ask only a non Sikh teenage boy what he thought of teenage girls, this question needs to be asked with Sikhs male and female teenagers and adults about Sex and having a relationship. Generally the Sikhs by and large are not very open to discuss sex with their children, hence this prompts curiosity among people to ask others (such as online forums, like this site, ask their peers, friends, co-workers, internet, books, magazines, movies, and etc). We are in the 21st century which means that there is a good chance that we will come across many Sikhs who have engaged in pre-martial sexual relationship, if we keep closing our eyes and keep saying this doesn't happen within our community then we are the fools to not to acknowledge the reality in front of our eyes. In many Churches they discuss safe sex,AIDs, HIV, yet we as Sikhs feel this a taboo to be discussed in the Gurdwara, or any Sikhism related place. Although we as Sikhs have progressed in many fields but when it comes to discussing sex with the Sikh teenagers and adults we are quite shy about it.

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what would you like me to answer.

Anonymous sikh gravatar imageAnonymous sikh ( 2012-12-03 17:59:51 -0500 )edit

If I have children in the future, I will be sure to discuss the topic of sex with them. I just find it ridiculous that we can't talk to our parents about things like this. Part of the reason why Sikhs have pre marital relationships is because no one has the guts to tell them what it really means.

pawan gravatar imagepawan ( 2012-12-03 18:00:33 -0500 )edit

well that is normal

Anonymous sikh gravatar imageAnonymous sikh ( 2012-12-03 18:00:56 -0500 )edit

Have you ever seen a Sikh Masturbaute or watch porn, if so, then you can say that Sikhs are equal to other faiths, if not, then I am right on this issue

Sardar Sukhmeet Singh gravatar imageSardar Sukhmeet Singh ( 2012-12-03 18:01:03 -0500 )edit

sikhs like other human beings do masturbate or watch pornography

Anonymous sikh gravatar imageAnonymous sikh ( 2012-12-03 18:02:14 -0500 )edit

I feel like you are correct, but in my way I am right that we should ask people of different age groups on the other sex, because they give different answers

Sardar Sukhmeet Singh gravatar imageSardar Sukhmeet Singh ( 2012-12-03 18:05:06 -0500 )edit

true, but ask some one who is past puberty to get a accurate answer of their feeling towards the opposite gender. Once someone goes past puberty attraction, hormonal changes, and sexual feelings arise.

Anonymous sikh gravatar imageAnonymous sikh ( 2012-12-03 18:09:33 -0500 )edit

Yes, I don't really feel like we are getting anywhere with this, I feel like this should be answered in another question

Sardar Sukhmeet Singh gravatar imageSardar Sukhmeet Singh ( 2012-12-03 18:13:37 -0500 )edit

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