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Is it wrong to see porn ?

asked 2015-09-18 05:58:41 -0600

Jazz gravatar image

updated 2018-07-10 16:31:08 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I am 20 years old and I just want to know that is it wrong to See porn for a Sikh boy ? I am trying a lot but I am not able to control myself from watching porn everyday. If it's wrong then what's wrong in it ? Others people also watch porn but why there are special restrictions on us ? How can I stop it ? Is it even wrong to interact with a prostitute before marriage ? Plz help me

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answered 2015-09-22 22:03:57 -0600

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Everyone else has given excellent answers, but I also wanted to point out that many people involved in the porn industry are exploited and abused. By watching porn, not only are you harming yourself, but you are also hurting these very vulnerable and damaged people and continuing a bad cycle where desperate people are forced into this terrible industry.

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answered 2015-09-19 02:45:18 -0600

Cloud gravatar image

There is nothing wrong or right.

That said. There is cause and effect.

Most people from the old generation in the panth of sikhi will say things like Guruka Singh.

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So go out and excersise and do sat kriya. If this doesn't work after doing sat kriya everyday for 40 days come back and post your progression

/Cloud

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answered 2015-09-22 14:57:24 -0600

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updated 2015-09-22 15:02:27 -0600

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Bro it is very hard to overcome watching pornography and masturbation. You wont be able to do it your self, only through Guru Ji. So do naam simran, path and sewa.

It's going to be very hard for you if you do it everyday, best thing is to cut done slowly.

Watching porn is not right for many reasons:

  1. Guru Gobind Singh Ji Mahraj has told us a girl can only be a sister, mother or daughter.
  2. We should not see women as sexual objects
  3. It messes with your head, as you will increase your lust for girls when out in the real world.

Other people can do what they want, but Guru Ji knows whats wrong and right and has told us about the path to follow.

There are many things about porn and masturbation on this forum and others:

Check out this video

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Having sex before marriage in Sikhi is not permitted. You can't do anything sexual with prostitute.

Message back if you need more advice.

Its going to be hard overcoming this, I have trouble myself buy with Guru Ji grace everything become easier. Do Ardaas and try your best not to beat yourself up.

Please forgive me if i said anything offensive or wrong

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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answered 2015-09-24 06:05:24 -0600

Jazz gravatar image

Well, thank you so much everyone. Your suggestions have given me my answer. I will follow guruji"s rule, I'll do sewa, path and sat kriya.

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answered 2018-07-10 07:46:27 -0600

If guru ji said woman can only be our sisters, mothers or daughters then wat about his wife? So we can’t have a wife and also how are baby’s made? You have to have sex so how does that work if girls can only be out mothers, daughters or sisters?

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Yes, Ji. Husband and wife is a special relationship. I believe Bhenji meant to say, other than wife we look at the opposite sex as sibling, parent or child, not as objects of lust.

Guruka Singh gravatar imageGuruka Singh ( 2018-07-10 16:35:51 -0600 )edit

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