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Overcoming Moh

asked 2015-02-25 23:31:03 -0500

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Few months back, I started talking to a girl and I fell for her. We were good friends until she came to know about my feelings about her.M I did not expect anything from her but her friendship because I shared everything about my life that nobody knew.My intentions were always clear. I became very attached to her.I worshiped her for the kind of beatiful person she was. But I always felt that I was imposing my friendship on her and she didn't even care about it. I always apologized for things which I never did. I'm hurt. I feel very low on self esteem. The only good thing that happened was that it brought me more close to my Guru. I now put no reliance in people but Gd. It made me realize that humans are not meant to be worshiped. My problem is that I'm still very attached to her and I know that its all Moh. I want to get rid of this. I recite my Banis. I want to take amrit and lead a life my Gurus have shown me. I would be really happy if Gurka Singh addresses my question. I'm just a disciple who needs little guidance. I will be grateful. Thank you.

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answered 2015-03-02 12:31:17 -0500

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Just do ardaas and bow your head in thankfulness for even the feelings he gave you. A lot of these times you feel you have given too much of yourself away.Who are you to give anything away,when it was all the Guru's? Your duty is to be pure and selfless in your feelings and that's all you can be responsible for.Her feelings she is responsible for, to care for someone purely is a gift few have and seldom appreciated; thank Waheguru ji for making you innocent enough and pray to him to preserve your innocence.Stay blessed.

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answered 2015-09-02 20:36:46 -0500

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Hi honestly been through a similar situation. Moh is actually very horrible because the other person is running your life.when you need to bow ur head to the one and only god. it will take time but invest time in building a relationship with god with a true heart and intention. The faster you accept this the better and more peaceful you will be. You need to hobestly focus on that, you will be sad at first it is called bairaag avistha, but later you will have dheeraj avistha. Which should be ur ultimate goal. Repetition is key thou, keep working on it, be comfortable with ur presence and making it excellent through the grace of guru

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