i am so tensed. don't know what will happen ?

asked 2014-07-13 03:08:54 -0500

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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh... i don't know whether i am doing right or not by posting this question. actually after suffering from lots of problems and hardships in india i decided to go abroad for my studies. i have spent 4 months here in New Zealand and still i am jobless. i have to become something in my life, i have to become something in my life by studying. the thing is my parents have taken student study loan of 10 lakh for my studies and i have to arrange my next year fee on my own because i can't ask my parents to pay that as they can't do it. living alone in a foreign country is very hard. people are saying me that don't worry everything will become fine but the question is when ??? indian people says that white people don't like sikh person as they have beard and wear turban and i am just like that. they say that if u become a cutting clean shaved person then you will be able to get a job but i don't wanna do that. i want to become an inspiration for others that one can succeed in life by remaining in its own sikh personality. but everything is going wrong not according to my will. i am still jobless and don't know that what will happen ? apart from these problems i can't believe other sikh persons who have became cutting and make fun of me by saying that you are khatri. all of our ten sikh gurus were khatri. then what is the problem with these cutting jatts who are making my life more miserable.. sometimes i feel that i should even stop visiting gurudwara.. my other mates who have cut their hair are doing good jobs. i don't know what will happen with me ?

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answered 2014-07-14 18:25:26 -0500

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh

First thing is not to worry, we all suffer from ups and downs we just cant let them beat us. With the money problem, talk to your university and explain to them your financial position may be they can sort so help out.

We all want to become something in our lives, but thats not in our control, it's only going to happen to if its Guru Sahib Jee's Kirpa and Wahegurus Kirpa, without we cant do anything so keep going Gurdwara dont let the 5 demons in you win.

Today I went to my brothers graduation, and when the Dean of the uni was walking down with other senior staff, I was happy to see a Singh with a turban and a grown beard leading them down and sitting with them and he was the head of the student in university. So the MAJORITY of white people dont hate us its just a misconception.

Im currently studying in my second year at university in London, and I just started to grow my Kes for nearly a year, and I think its really useful when applying for jobs going for interviews, because where Sings and where meant to stand out. And I cant find a job either even when i had cut hair, its not because of the way you look, its probably other reasons. Your friends with cut hair/beard probably have jobs because of pure lock/experience or the amount of time they have been in the country.

I really admire you when you say "want to become an inspiration for others that one can succeed in life by remaining in its own sikh personality", but if we have to work hard and keep faith in Guru Sahib Jee for this to happen, so NEVER stop going Gudwara just ignore that feeling and when other people are making your life miserable just ignore them, and dont show any sign that it affects then they have no pleasure in doing it.

Try and find some friends both Sikh and non, join some clubs, go sight seeing. Aswell as an academic life you need some fun time.

Just keep doing Banis, Naam Simran, helping people and everything will turn out for the best.

hope this helped and hope your inspiration will come true and I know it will make me happy.

Please forgive me, if I have said anything wrong.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh

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thanx bro for your such a good suggestion. i will not stop going to gurudwara but one thing is striking in my mind that that why those people who have cut their hair are getting success in their lives as compared to others.

jaskaran ( 2014-07-17 04:41:13 -0500 )edit

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh Sorry this is late. Waheguru Jee is the Guopala, the cherisher and nurture of the world. So worry blesses every one with gifts but the main thing is that we when we are blessed with gifts we shouldnt forget the giver dat pyria visheria datara (please forgive me if this wrong )

gn ( 2014-07-24 17:12:45 -0500 )edit

You cannot know another's karma or what misery may come in their lives. Do not judge what is happening from the appearance of it.Whst seems sweet now may be bitter later. What seems bitter now may later be the sweetest of all.