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asked 2012-07-19 23:38:52 -0600

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updated 2012-09-20 10:53:41 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

waheguru ji ka khlasa waheguru ji ke fateh

ji right now i am facing a dilemma. I am into the medical field, however i do not like my job. My heart is not into it. However my parents aand acquaintances are very proud of me and feel happy for me. But i donot feel happy doing it and i am constantly avoiding my job. I feel like bunking all the time. So this makes me feel even more unhappy that my parents would feel bad if they got to know this. so what should i do? should i change my field and do something i want to do? or should continue doing what i do?

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answered 2012-07-20 12:29:52 -0600

Guruka Singh gravatar image

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

Not only can you not lead your life to please others, it is not even possible to please them. This is true no matter what you do. Life is not to please yourself and life is not to please others. Life is to serve the Guru in the manner in which he commands you to serve. In order to do that, you have to report to Him for your assignment and then be alert to the messages He is sending you. This requires two things: complete surrender and absolute alertness.

.....G

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answered 2012-11-10 20:21:59 -0600

kanwaljit.singh gravatar image

Personally I can understand you are stuck in a job you don't like. If you really hate it, you will find a way out. We can just suggest ideas. You can get into sales for medical equipment. Or open a pharmacy. You can even do a mastes in some other field or go in for a PhD to change your line. This might take you a bit towards research side. I would say it is never late.. Frankly I would believe you would have enough capital saved as a doc to open a store, shop or restaurant.. The thing is you will have to take a risk.. and a leap of faith!

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answered 2012-11-11 16:04:01 -0600

Prabh Kaur gravatar image

I reckon if you don't like it, consider changing it BUT don't just stop doing what you are doing right now. Think about other options, discuss it with your parents and think about what is it that you really hate? May be you just need a break.

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