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asked 2012-07-05 13:45:12 -0500

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There is one sex related question which is being asked by few here, I dont have proper gurmat related anwser on it.   Question is: Is masterbate (play with yourself sexually) allowed in Gurmat or not?   Why is this question arises here, there is scenarios like:      Young unmarried people wants to have sex with girl firends for enjoy but which is comdemned per Gurmat         OR     Separated or divorsed couples who don't sex for months     OR     Marries people live together but dont sex due to fights in them or due to some other reasons....     etc....   I mean if they sex with others which become Kurehat, but if they do Masterbat then its not at least kurehat, but even Is this ok or not as per gurmat?   Pls ask this question from some real Guru piare if you can. I know this is a very difficult question to be asked from any gurmukh piare. If its difficult to ask, then no issues, just forget it. And dont discuss this thing with anyone else.

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answered 2012-07-09 11:39:00 -0500

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This has been answered many times before. Please be so kind as to search the question and answer archive at http://fateh.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/youth.nsf/by+Topic before posting your question here.

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answered 2012-07-09 17:17:56 -0500

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This sounds like a lot of karmic crap. Just ask youself will all this sexing with everybody, wether you're married, divorced or single bring you inner peace and let you expierence God in everybody, cause this is what a Sikh or spiritual Person wants to achieve. Make Sex into a Spiritual expierence between to beloved and you will become God,do it unconsciously and it will become a disease and addiction which will consume your whole being. Try not to distinguish everything by putting it into two boxes rehat and kurehat, relate to it, understand it, feel the effect and the answer will pop out of nothing.

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answered 2012-08-13 15:33:28 -0500

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When me & my wife make love as an AMRITDHARI am i supposed 2 take my KIRPAN OFF, please can u tell me????

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answered 2012-08-20 11:12:57 -0500

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God does not interfere in the intimate realtionship between husband and wife, because your unity becomes God, so you are God. You should feel comfortable and easy during this intimate moments. The Kirpn can even get dirty,to respect the bagauti in form of Kirpan and feel comfortable, you can take of the Kirpan during you have sex, but put the Kirpan in a place reachable to you, so that in danger you can still use your Kirpan and still have the protecting energy of the Bagauti with you. You can also put a small Kirpan in your Dastar or glue a very tiny Kirpan to your Khanga, and use this as Kirpan just for this intimate time

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answered 2012-08-26 14:40:25 -0500

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  • The fact that you are thinking about these things is not gurmat.
  • All this crap is secondary and there are much more important things in life that need urgent attention like getting your nitnem and amrit vella proper. That is the 1st question anyone should ask themselves before asking these shenanigans.
  • If the person is not "interested" in Nitnem and are "interested" in such questions, they are not even sikhs. You already know the panktee, "Gur Satgur ka jo sikh akhavae,........". You know the rest.

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