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Need help with unhappy/ Forced arranged marriage?

asked 2019-03-16 01:16:23 -0500

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updated 2019-03-18 10:38:01 -0500

Guruka Singh gravatar image

I did arrange marriage with my wife 4 weeks ago. My parents forced me into arranged marriage. My marriage was decided and fixed in just 15 days. I have someone whom I love already which my parents knew and she is from different caste. So they some forced me and convinced me for arrange marriage. I did for my family. I am unhappy with my marriage. I will never be able to love my wife. I am still talking to the girl I love. I want to divorce my current wife and marry love of my life. I am confused and worried that I will do this sin ? Please advice me what do I do now ? I really waheguru's ji help

I need your suggestions and advice. How do i tackle this situation in my life ?

I am also thinking about the girl life whom I recently married. We fight alot, we have nothing in common, theres no love. She is only 22.

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answered 2019-03-17 02:07:33 -0500

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Can you give us more details for example, how old are you? Do you live outside India etc.

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answered 2019-03-17 22:13:22 -0500

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updated 2019-03-17 22:17:04 -0500

Thanks for your response.

I live in Canada. I am 27 years old. But the girl doesn't have any visa status for Canada or any other country. Few days ago of marriage there parents applied for student visa but got denied, I got to know this after my marriage. They are very informal and unserious when they applied insincerely. Now I am in this situation. Please help me take decision ?

I want to seperate from girl now. Its only been 1 month. What will society think ? What will girl go through ? What will my parents go through. I am very worried thinking about all this.

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answered 2019-03-24 17:49:33 -0500

Keep communications open. You should have communicated with your parents before marriage. You still are dragging your life. The sooner you communicate the better it will be. Communicate with your parents. Communicate with your wife. Communicate with your girlfriend. Communicate with your self. The longer you wait: it will get more and more complicated.

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