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Silent Crush .. been 1 year ..

asked 2018-01-06 04:54:29 -0500

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updated 2018-01-08 03:01:58 -0500

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I have this very bad crush on someone who doesn’t talk to girls that much .. I have been tried talking to him.. through social media .. but I heard he has never really talked to a girl before ... and I have annoyed him way too much and I have embarrassed myself too. I think he knows I like him and he sometimes stare at me but doesn’t talk to me. (BTW IM ONLY 15 and he is only 16) So this crush thing has started since I came to America. Like I had crushes India but they were not tha it’s effecting my daily life. Like it’s like a drug to my stress. I get up every morning happily bc I get to see him . It’s not like my life is bad or anything but everything els just faded away since this crush thing.. idk I didn’t want myslef to get involved in this stuff .. but it’s too late . What can I do now .. if I try forgetting him it’s just make myslef depressed and irritated . And if I go with flow I have embarrassed myself so much I think he knows for sure I like him idk what to do.. he looks at me and sometimes Stare .. all I want to know is figure out what he thinks (does he care, does he even know etc) ...idk ..any advice would be great

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answered 2018-01-06 10:08:43 -0500

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updated 2018-01-06 10:28:09 -0500

Yes, he knows that you like him that is why he stares at you. I am also 15 yrs old and I have gone through the same situation . You don't like him. Probably you have fallen in love with him . Something special in him must have impressed you. According to my experience ..Since he knows you like him he us just attracted towards you . I can understand what all you go through when you try to forget him and it's very difficult to get out of this. But be patient and just tell him about your feelings honestly . If he accepts you then it's perfect but if he doesn't respond then don't ever wait for him and just move on . Remember one thing don't be too emotionally attached to him and don't get frustrated if he rejects you . It's god's will . Even the most miserable plights of life are under the control of God . Ik it's difficult to forget him but you'll surely do that one fine day . If he accepts you with true heart then don't ever leave him and never let your ego come between the relationship . Remeber the five thieves of Sikhism . Face the situation with confidence and stay strong. Trust me if he doesn't accept you try to forget him asap . I am not demotivating you but just be ready to face both the situations and trust God. All the best ☺️

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Thanks ..since u r also 15 do u wanna be friends ..u seem like a nice person idc if u a guy or girl ¿

Kour gravatar imageKour ( 2018-01-07 00:58:56 -0500 )edit

Hi .. I am a girl and yes I would also like to become your friend . I am an Indian . No problem at all I feel so happy to guide you cause since I have gone through all this shit .. i can understand the importance of right guidance from the initial stage itself .

Ann gravatar imageAnn ( 2018-01-07 04:19:35 -0500 )edit

any social media that u have ¿ sc ..¿

Kour gravatar imageKour ( 2018-01-07 12:03:33 -0500 )edit

Yes I am on sc

Ann gravatar imageAnn ( 2018-01-07 23:41:11 -0500 )edit

Here u can add me if u want ¿ my sc is : kaaurr

Kour gravatar imageKour ( 2018-01-08 08:14:29 -0500 )edit

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