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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

Beta, you are 15 years old. It is normal to fantasize a lot. Imaging a future together and how wonderful it will be. But this is just that... a fantasy. Reality will not match up. Please trust me on this. You do not know the real man yet, you just think you do. You only have your fantasy man with whom you are obsessed. Do not think that a spoken promise at this age will be justification for you to get involved with him. It is not. Only hurt and trouble lies that way.

You said, "I constantly tell myself that I can't do anything it will happen according to God's will." Yes, the destiny is written and Guru Ji will bring you your husband in time. You can't stop thinking about him by telling yourself not to. Even that is thinking about him. Spend more time with your friends and family. Do you do sports? Activities that get you out of your head will help. Learn to meditate and how to control your mind in that way. When you have a strong daily practice, you can make your mind neutral quickly with Simran. I send you much love and Guru Ji's blessings that you will be strong and not make a mistake.

Guru rakha