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"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela

I was scared, well terrified, of cycling on the roads instead of the pavement, in case a car might run me over. But I did it, at first my heart would be pounding everytime a car drove past me, but now I'm absolutely fine. The thing is, fear goes and courage comes after you've experienced or done something you're quite frightened of, not before you do the scary thing.

Maybe you could just talk to them like they're your pal like: Me: Oh, hey whoa, this shower is occupied. Spider: Omg man I didn't see you there. Me: We cool? Spider: Yeah, yeah, we're cool. I'm just coming down to scope out the tub. Me: Oh, that's legit. Hey, you might wanna move over some--you're descending right into the shower stream and I don't want you to drown. Spider: Hey thanks, bud. I'll be careful. Me: So...can I get out now? Spider: Sure, sure! Sorry I'll just move over here. Me: Thanks. You have a nice night. Don't come into my bedroom, okay? Spider: Nah, that's your space. We're cool. Have a great evening.

Something I tumbld across. LOL

Vahegurooo <3

"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela

I was scared, well terrified, of cycling on the roads instead of the pavement, in case a car might run me over. But I did it, at first my heart would be pounding everytime a car drove past me, but now I'm absolutely fine. The thing is, fear goes and courage comes after you've experienced or done something you're quite frightened of, not before you do the scary thing.

Maybe you could just talk to them like they're your pal like: Me: Oh, hey whoa, this shower is occupied. occupied.

Spider: Omg man I didn't see you there. there.

Me: We cool? cool?

Spider: Yeah, yeah, we're cool. I'm just coming down to scope out the tub. tub.

Me: Oh, that's legit. Hey, you might wanna move over some--you're descending right into the shower stream and I don't want you to drown. drown.

Spider: Hey thanks, bud. I'll be careful. careful.

Me: So...can I get out now? now?

Spider: Sure, sure! Sorry I'll just move over here. here.

Me: Thanks. You have a nice night. Don't come into my bedroom, okay? okay?

Spider: Nah, that's your space. We're cool. Have a great evening.

Something I tumbld across. LOL

Vahegurooo <3

"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela

I was scared, well terrified, of cycling on the roads instead of the pavement, in case a car might run me over. But I did it, at first my heart would be pounding everytime a car drove past me, but now I'm absolutely fine. The thing is, fear goes and courage comes after you've experienced or done something you're quite frightened of, not before you do the scary thing.

Maybe you could just talk to them like they're your pal like: Me: like:

*Me: Oh, hey whoa, this shower is occupied.

Spider: Omg man I didn't see you there.

Me: We cool?

Spider: Yeah, yeah, we're cool. I'm just coming down to scope out the tub.

Me: Oh, that's legit. Hey, you might wanna move over some--you're descending right into the shower stream and I don't want you to drown.

Spider: Hey thanks, bud. I'll be careful.

Me: So...can I get out now?

Spider: Sure, sure! Sorry I'll just move over here.

Me: Thanks. You have a nice night. Don't come into my bedroom, okay?

Spider: Nah, that's your space. We're cool. Have a great evening.evening.*

Something I tumbld across. LOL

Vahegurooo <3