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Dear Harry, Waheguru Ji. "Madly in love" is a fantasy. It is not reality. It is hot-blooded emotion. It is an imaginary two-person bubble.
All bubbles eventually POP!
You are judging this innocent girl to whom you have been married before God and Guru. You are caught in your preconceptions of who she is.
You are married. Relax and be so. Commitment is one of the steps to real happiness. You do not know who your wife really is yet. You don't even know who you really are yet. Take time to find out. You are not who you think you are.
Please get out of your fantasy life and live the life you have been given. You will discover that with kindness, compassion, communication and intimacy your wife is not who you think she is. Herein lies the real marriage.
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Dear Harry, Waheguru Ji. "Madly in love" is a fantasy. It is not reality. It is hot-blooded emotion. It is an imaginary two-person bubble.
All bubbles eventually POP!
You are judging this innocent girl to whom you have been married before God and Guru. You are caught in your preconceptions of who she is.
You are married. Relax and be so. Commitment is one of the steps to real happiness. You do not know who your wife really is yet. You don't even know who you YOU really are yet. Take time to find out. You are not who you think you are.
Please get out of your fantasy life and live the life you have been given. You will discover that with kindness, compassion, communication and intimacy your wife is not who you think she is. Herein lies the real marriage.