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I'm glad you have found someone you feel comfortable with. I know you struggled a lot after the death of your wife and since the last time you wrote, I feel like you have made a lot of positive changes. Keep up the good work. I guess the questions I would ask is how does she feel about raising your kids (obviously you’ve mentioned you are fine with raising hers), do the kids all get along and how do they feel about it, what is her parenting and discipline style and does it match yours, why is she single (is she divorced? What happened with her relationship and does it raise red flags for you), are you on the same page for long term goals? What are your expectations of each other? Does your life purpose match? Do you have similar devotion for Sikhi? Is there any reason to think she’d get some sort of financial or other gain from this. Try getting to know her family. Caste shouldnt be a problem.

I'm glad you have found someone you feel comfortable with. I know you struggled a lot after the death of your wife and since the last time you wrote, I feel like you have made a lot of positive changes. Keep up the good work. I guess the questions I would ask is how does she feel about raising your kids (obviously you’ve mentioned you are fine with raising hers), do the kids all get along and how do they feel about it, what is her parenting and discipline style and does it match yours, why is she single (is she divorced? What happened with her relationship and does it raise red flags for you), are you on the same page for long term goals? What are your expectations of each other? Does your life purpose match? Do you have similar devotion for Sikhi? Is there any reason to think she’d get some sort of financial or other gain from this. Try getting to know her family. Caste shouldnt be a problem. an issue

I'm glad you have found someone you feel comfortable with. I know you struggled a lot after the death of your wife and since the last time you wrote, I feel like you have made a lot of positive changes. Keep up the good work. I guess the questions I would ask is how does she feel about raising your kids (obviously you’ve mentioned you are fine with raising hers), do the kids all get along and how do they feel about it, what is her parenting and discipline style and does it match yours, why is she single (is she divorced? What happened with her relationship and does it raise red flags for you), are you on the same page for long term goals? What are your expectations of each other? Does your life purpose match? Do you have similar devotion for Sikhi? Is there any reason to think she’d get some sort of financial or other gain from this. Try getting to know her family. Caste shouldnt be an issue